THE LANGUAGE OF FLOWERS

Oh, flowers, you darlings of Nature, How lovely and sweet are you; But the first to give you a meaning Was a lover faithful and true. May you convey what I would impart To the maiden who’s captured my heart. —Goldsmith.

There is a sentiment about flowers which appeals to the heart of everyone. The lover conveys his message of love, the friend, his token of friendship thru a bouquet or box of blooming flowers. Every incident of our busy and eventful lives can be celebrated by the gift of flowers. Births, christenings, birthdays, graduations, confirmations, weddings, anniversaries and funerals:—all are appropriately observed by the sending of plants or blossoms. It is not strange, therefore, that among most nations a sentimental language has been created in which the flower speaks its part and repeats the message of the heart. While there is no fixed vocabulary, the following table gives the sentiments most frequently associated with flowers.

By combining flowers, various shades of sentiment can be expressed and whole messages conveyed.

For instance—

A camellia, rose and carnation would mean, “Your loveliness attracts me. Smile upon me, and cheer my poor heart.”

Moss rose and myrtle mean, “Your superior merit makes me love you.”

Lily-of-the-Valley and ferns mean, “You fascinate me and my happiness returns.”

Yellow rose and ivy mean, “My love increases, can I hope for matrimony?”

A rosebud divested of its thorns, but retaining its leaves, conveys the sentiment, “I fear no longer; I hope.” Stripped of leaves and thorns, it signifies, “There is nothing to hope or fear.”

A full-blown rose placed over two buds signifies “Secrecy.” “Yes,” is implied by touching the flower given to the lips. “No,” by pinching off a petal and casting it away. “I am,” is expressed by a laurel leaf, twined around the bouquet. “I have,” by an ivy leaf folded together. “I offer you,” by a leaf of Virginia creeper.

FlowerSentiment
AcaciaJust love is what I feel.
Acacia RoseFriendship without end.
AcanthusModesty is your nature.
AdonisSorrowful remembrances.
AgrimonyThankfulness and love.
AlmondHope for better days.
AloeQuarrel.
AlthaeaConsumed by love.
AlyssumWorth beyond beauty is yours.
AmaranthImmortality; devotion.
AmaryllisSplendid beauty is yours.
AmbrosiaLove returned brings joy.
AnemoneExpectation of desolation.
Anemone, GardenForsaken by one I love.
AngelicaInspiration; ecstasy.
AppleTemptation to tell all.
Apple BlossomPreference for you.
Arbor VitaeUnchanging friendship.
ArbutusClinging passion.
ArumArdor; aspiration.
AshGrandeur of affection.
Ash, MountainPrudence and care.
Aspen TreeLamentation for lost hope.
AsterThoughts of love of you.
AttriculaAvarice is bad.
AzaleaHappiness is mine.

Bachelor’s Button

Hope in love for you.
BalmSympathy; strength of soul.
Balm of GileadHealing my heart.
BalsamImpatience at delay.
BasilHatred and disdain.
Bay LeafChange of heart.
BeechProsperity with you.
Bee OrchisError and pain.
Bell FlowerGratitude to you.
BelladonnaCoquetry becomes you.
Birch TreeMeekness is a virtue.
BluebellFidelity to my love.
BoxConstancy; pity.
BrambleEnvy of those about you.
Broken StrawDissension is cruel.
BroomNeatness a virtue.
BuckbeanCalm repose to my heart.
BuglossFalsehood.
ButtercupRiches in your smile.

Calla Lily

Feminine beauty is yours.
CamelliaLoveliness of soul.
CandytuftIndifference to all but you.
Canterbury BellGratitude to you.
Cape JessamineEcstasy in your presence.
Cardinal FlowerDistinction.
Carnation, yellow or whiteDisdain and sorrow.
Carnation, redMy poor heart grieves.
Catchfly, whiteA victim of your spells.
CedarI live for thee.
Cedar of LebanonIncorruptible memories.
CelandineFuture joys be yours.
Cherry TreeEducation of my heart.
China AsterVariety desired.
China PinkAversion to love.
Chrysanthemum, roseTrue love.
Chrysanthemum, whiteTruth will out.
Chrysanthemum, yellowForever love and happiness.
CinquefoilBeloved girl.
ClematisArtifice, coquetry.
Clover, 4-leafGood luck to all.
Clover, redIndustry helps.
Clover, whiteThink of me always.
CoboeaGossip is cruel.
CockscombAffectation mars.
ColtsfootJustice follows.
ColumbineFolly to be loved.
Columbine, purpleResolved to win.
Columbine, redAnxious waiting.
Convolvulus MajorDead hope.
Convolvulus MinorUncertainty and pain.
CorchorusImpatience to see you.
CoreopsisLove at first sight.
CornWealth and joy.
Cornelian, Cherry TreeDurability of love.
CornillaSuccess in wooing.
CowslipPensiveness.
Cowslip, AmericanMy divinity is here.
Crape Myrtle Eloquence in pleading.
Cress, IndianResignation.
CrocusCheerfulness with you.
Crown, ImperialMajesty of your glance.
CurrantsYou please me.
CypressMourning for you.
Cypress and MarigoldDespair in my heart.

Daffodil

Chivalry tells.
DahliaForever thine.
Daisy, GardenI agree with you.
Daisy, MichaelmasFarewell, my dear.
Daisy, whiteInnocence and faith.
Daisy, wildI think of you.
DandelionCoquetry is not like you.
Daphne OdorataI would have you always.
Dead LeavesSadness in my soul.
DiosmaUselessness of pleading.
DockPatience will tell.
DodderMeanness is despicable.

Ebony

Hypocrisy hurts.
EglantineHealing my heart.
ElderCompassion from you.
ElmDignity in your attention.
Elm, AmericanPatriotism.
EndiveFrugality wins.
EupatoriumDelay no more.
Evening PrimroseInconstancy is pain.
EvergreenPoverty disguised.

Ferns

Fascination.
FilbertReconciliation with you.
Fir TreeElevation to your heart.
FlaxKindness wins.
Flowering ReedConfidence in you.
Forget-me-notTrue love.
FoxgloveInsincerity disgusts me.
FraxinellaFire purifies.
Fuchsia, scarletTaste differs.

Gardenia

Ecstasy is mine.
Geranium, ApplePreference for you.
Geranium, IvyHappiness will come.
Geranium, NutmegA meeting soon.
Geranium, OakDeign to smile on me.
Geranium, RosePreference for me.
Geranium, Silver LeafRecall that word.
GillyflowerBeauty wins.
GoldenrodBe cautious, dear.
GooseberryAnticipation of evil.
GoosefootGoodness conquers.
GorseAffection for you.
GrapeCharity at home.
GrassUtility.
Guelder Rose (Snowball)Winter is near.

Harebell

Grief sears the soul.
HawthornHope for spring.
HazelReconciliation.
HeartseaseThink of me.
Heartsease, purpleYou cheer my thoughts.
HealthSolitude is harmful.
HeleniumTears conquer.
Heliotrope, PeruvianDevotion to an ideal.
HelleboreScandal is ripe.
HepaticaConfidence wins.
HollyForesight is best.
HollyhockFruitfulness.
Hollyhock, whiteAmbition will conquer.
Honesty (Lunaria)Sincerity for you.
HoneysuckleSweet love.
HoneyflowerSecret love in my heart.
HopInjustice hurts.
HornbeamOrnament.
Horse-ChestnutLuxury will be yours.
House-LeekEconomy is best.
HoustoniaContent be mine.
Hoya (Wax Plant)Sculpture.
Hyacinth, whiteUnobtrusiveness wins.
Hyacinth, blueConstancy a blessing.
Hyacinth, purpleSorrow.
Hydrangea Heartlessness grieves.

Indian Cress

Resignation.
IrisMessage of love.
Iris, GermanWarmth of heart.
IvyFidelity to me.

Jessamine, Cape

Joy and rapture.
Jessamine, white Amiability.
Jessamine, yellowElegance of dress.
JonquilReturn of affection.
JuniperProtection and love.
JusticiaPerfection of duty.

Kennedya

Beauty becomes you.

Laburnum

Pensiveness.
Lady’s SlipperWin me! I am for you.
LantanaRigor of conscience.
LarchBoldness of action.
LarkspurFickleness will lose.
LaurelGlory and fame.
LaurestinusDon’t neglect me.
LavenderDistrust me.
Lemon BlossomDiscretion is best.
LettuceCruel girl.
LilacEmotion of love.
Lilac, whiteYouth and hope.
LilyModesty becomes you.
Lily-of-the-ValleyHappiness is here.
Lily, DayCoquetry harms.
Lily, WaterEloquence tells.
Lily, yellowGaiety.
Linden TreeConjugal love.
Live OakLiberty of action.
LocustAffection for me.
London PrideFrivolity is bad.
Love-Lies-BleedingHopeless passion.
LungwortLife art thou to me.
LupinaImagination fails.
LychnisFeeling for me.

Madder

Calumny harms.
Magnolia, ChineseLove of nature.
MagnoliaPeerless girl.
Magnolia, SwampPerseverance wins.
MallowMildness is best.
MandrakeHorror of evil.
MapleReserve of force.
MarigoldCruelty weakens.
Marigold, AfricanVulgar-minded.
Marigold, FrenchJealousy pains.
MarjoramBlushes for shame.
Meadow-SaffronAge comes rapidly.
Meadow-SweetUselessness of refusing.
MignonetteCharm of love.
MinosaSensitiveness.
MintVirtue.
MistletoeKisses that delight.
Mock Orange (Syringa)Counterfeit love.
MoonwortForgetfulness of pain.
MossMaternal affection.
MotherwortSecret love.
Mountain LaurelTreachery to none.
Mulberry, blackI will not survive trouble.
Mulberry, whiteWisdom of the heart.
MulleinGood nature.
MushroomSuspicion of infidelity.
Mustard-seedIndifference to me.
MyosotisForget-me-not.
MyrtleLove me always.

Narcissus

Egotism harms.

Peach Blossom

Marriage with one’s love.
Pride of China (Melia)Worry and pain.
PrimroseYouth is jovial.
Primrose, EveningInconstancy.
PrivetMildness of temper.

Quince

Temptation.

Ragged Robin

Wit and gaiety.
ReedsMusic has charms.
RoseLove will win.
Rose, AmericanYou are lovely.
Rose, BridalHappy love.
Rose, BurgundyUnconscious beauty.
Rose, ChinaGrace is yours.
Rose, pinkSmile upon me.
Rose, damaskFreshness of youth.
Rose, hundred leavedPride of innocence.
Rose, MossCompassion of love.
Rose, redHastefulness.
Rose, SweetbrierSympathy with you.
Rose, TeaAlways lovely.
Rose, whiteI am worthy of you.
Roses, witheredA transient joy.
Rose, WildWorthy of you.
Rose, yellowJealousy in my heart.
Roses, Garland ofReward of virtue.
RosebudYou are a girl of taste.
Rosebud, whiteInnocence.
RueDisdain me not.
RushDocility to me.

Saffron

Danger threatens.
SageEsteem me.
Satin Flower (Lunaria)Sincerity.
Sensitive PlantTimidity becomes you.
Service TreePrudence is best.
ShamrockLight-heartedness.
SnapdragonPresumption of love.
SnowballThoughts of bliss.
SnowdropConsolation be mine.
SorrelJest not.
SouthernwoodJesting is cruel.
SpearmintWarmth of passion.
SpeedwellFidelity.
StarwortWelcome home.
Stock, Ten-weekPromptitude of action.
StramoniumDisguise your feelings.
StrawAgreement with me.
StrawberryExcellence of taste.
Strawberry TreeI esteem you.
SumacSplendor of thought.
SunflowerAn adorer is here.
Sweet PeaDepart not from me.
Sweet WilliamFinesse is necessary.
SycamoreCuriosity to know.
SyringaMemory of the past.

Tansy

Forgetfulness.
TeaselMisanthropy.
ThistleSadness at home.
ThornsSeverity of deed.
ThymeActivity will win.
TuberoseDanger is near.
TulipsDeclaration of passion.

Verbena

Pray for me.
Violet, blueLoving-kindness helps.
Violet, whiteModesty and passion.

Weeping Willow

Forsaken by all.
Witch-HazelYou cast a spell over me.

Yew

Sorrow is mine.

POPULAR BELIEFS AMONG THE ANCIENTS
AS TO THE INFLUENCE OF
PRECIOUS STONES

It would require a volume to give a summary of all the quaint and mysterious beliefs that cluster about precious stones. From very ancient times they have been more or less associated with the idea that they influence human life and happiness. Below we give a few of the many traits and influences of the stones in general use. We do not desire to appeal to the credulity of our readers, but merely to enlighten them as to the folklore of this subject.

These indications are taken literally from “many a quaint and curious volume of forgotten lore.”

Agate.—An old popular notion regards it as a guarantee against drunkenness. The water in which it is steeped is said to cure sterility. It is said also to counteract magical charms.

Batrachite.—This substance, which is really silicate of magnesia, used to be regarded as a stone found in the body of a frog, and it was supposed to have great powers against poison and sorcery.

Beryl.—The water in which this stone has been dipped causes sympathy between those who drink it.

Chrysolite.—Albertus Magnus regarded it as a preservative against frenzy, but it is also a penitential stone, causing sorrow for wrongdoing in the heart of the sinner who wears it. Finally it is a cure for the gout.

Chrysoprase.—Has the property of strengthening the eyes, raising the spirits and rendering a man liberal and joyous.

Coral.—Was said to protect any house against epidemic disease, to stop the flow of blood, to drive away evil spirits, to avert lightning and hail.

Diamond.—It would be curious if many traditions of occult power had not centralized about this precious stone, and a bare enumeration only of its virtues is possible in the present place. It prevails against poison, plague, panic, insomnia, charms and enchantments. It soothes anger, reconciles husbands and wives. When it has been consecrated under the planet Mars and engraved with an image of that deity, it renders the wearer invincible, whence it naturally inspires courage. Worn round the neck, it insures safe childbirth. In some other ways, it seems to have been regarded as unpropitious.

Emerald.—If ground into powder, this stone was supposed to cure dysentery and the bites of venomous animals. There is a chance that those who wear it will not be subject to epilepsy. It also strengthens memory and maintains chastity.

Heliotrope.—The stone bearing the name, in common with a beautiful and well-known flower, should be sought by the curious, as it renders the wearer invisible. But it is unknown in these days.

Hematite or Bloodstone.—Valuable for its power in incantations, against the sorcery of the evil eye, and to cement the bonds of friendship among male persons.

Hyacinth.—This also is a preservative against the plague, which was a common scourge in the old days, and was therefore an especial concern of occult medicine and its substitutes. The hyacinth was also a cure for dropsy.

Jade.—This is another stone which protects against venomous beasts.

Jasper.—This stone is noticeable chiefly as a favorite gem on which magical signs were engraved, so that they might be worn as amulets. But it also preserved the wearer from poisonous bites.

Linurgas or Lapis Lineus.—A stone of ancient repute which would turn white if enveloped in a linen cloth, and the use of it would then prove beneficial in projects of magic. But it has been decided that the gem itself is fabulous, not to speak of the properties attributed thereto.

Onyx.—When engraved with the head of a camel, this stone procured evil dreams. It may have been used against enemies.

Opal.—The malefic influence which is sometimes attributed to this jewel, by which it has almost come to be regarded as unfortunate in the world of gems, has little authority in past traditions. It acted rather like a cordial to the heart of the wearer, was a safeguard against poison and contagion transmitted in the atmosphere; it served to raise the spirits and was valuable in affections of the eye.

Pearl.—If worn on the neck, it preserved chastity; if ground to powder and taken in milk, it sweetened irritable tempers; if ground with sugar, it cured pestilential fevers.

Perithe.—Whether precious or not, this stone seems unfamiliar to lapidaries, and as regards its appearance we can only report that it was of yellow color. Its virtue was to cure gout, and it had the power to burn the hand when it was held firmly. There are other fabulous stones, as, for example, Lapis Aguila or Eagle Stone, said to be found in the nest of that bird. It assisted childbirth, and according to Dioscorides, served to discover thieves.

Ruby.—The range of auspicious influences possessed by precious stones is exceedingly restricted, and the same virtues recur continually. The ruby resists poison, preserves from the plague, banishes melancholy and diverts evil thoughts. If it should change its color, this is a sign of approaching misfortunes, but it reverts to the original hue when the evil has passed away.

Sapphire.—This stone was good for inflammation of the eyes, and it also attracted good fortune.

Topaz.—This has the faculty of cooling boiling water, and it has been said that those who desire to regain lost positions should not fail to carry it about their person. It procures the sympathy of the whole world.

Turquoise.—We find only that this gem is liable to change its color when worn by certain people, not otherwise described.