MAUD CHURTON BRABY

“Marriage is the origin and summit of all
civilisation.”—Goethe.

POPULAR EDITION

T. WERNER LAURIE
CLIFFORD’S INN
LONDON

[ CONTENTS]

[PART I]
SIGNS OF UNREST

CHAP.

PAGE

[I.]

THE MUTUAL DISSATISFACTION OF THE SEXES

3
[II.]

WHY MEN DON’T MARRY

14
[III.]

WHY WOMEN DON’T MARRY

26
[IV.]

THE TRAGEDY OF THE UNDESIRED

42
[PART II]
CAUSES OF FAILURE
[I.]

THE VARIOUS KINDS OF MARRIAGE

57
[II.]

WHY WE FALL OUT: DIVERS DISCORDS

68
[III.]

THE AGE TO MARRY

85
[IV.]

WILD OATS FOR WIVES

89
[V.]

A PLEA FOR THE WISER TRAINING OF GIRLS

101
[VI.]

‘KEEPING ONLY TO HER’—THE CRUX OF MATRIMONY

109
[PART III]
SUGGESTED ALTERNATIVES
[I.]

LEASEHOLD MARRIAGE À LA MEREDITH

119
[II.]

LEASEHOLD MARRIAGE IN PRACTICE: A DIALOGUE IN 1999

129
[III.]

THE FIASCO OF FREE LOVE

141
[IV.]

POLYGAMY AT THE POLITE DINNER-TABLE

146
[V.]

IS LEGALISED POLYANDRY THE SOLUTION?

159
[VI.]

A WORD FOR ‘DUOGAMY’

161
[VII.]

THE ADVANTAGES OF THE PRELIMINARY CANTER

171
[PART IV]
CHILDREN—THE CUL-DE-SAC OF ALLREFORMS
[I.]

TO BEGET OR NOT TO BEGET—THE QUESTION OF THE DAY

177
[II.]

THE PROS AND CONS OF THE LIMITED FAMILY

184
[III.]

PARENTHOOD: THE HIGHEST DESTINY

193
[PART V]
HOW TO BE HAPPY THOUGH MARRIED
[I.]

A FEW SUGGESTIONS FOR REFORM

203
[II.]

SOME PRACTICAL ADVICE TO HUSBANDS AND WIVES

209


TO
C. STANLEY CHURTON
THE BEST FATHER IN THE WORLD
WITH DEEP GRATITUDE
FOR A LIFETIME OF LOVING-KINDNESS

[ PART I]
SIGNS OF UNREST

‘The Subject of Marriage is kept too much in the dark.
Air it! Air it!’ —George Meredith.