§ 77
One of the factors of the general marital muddle that constitutes most marriages is the ignorance of husband or wife, or both, about whether their sex life, if they still continue it, is normal. What are the evidences that the consummation of marital life has taken place as satisfactorily as could be wished, or as could occur with the pair in question, or (as is supposed at any rate) takes place with the newly married lovers on their honeymoon?
It is not enough merely to be able to say they are happy, for they will sometimes say so whether they know they are or not, and they will in some cases not know. In fact few people in or out of the wedded state know whether they are truly happy or not or how to become happy if they are not so.
If a husband and wife are happy together they will have begun to make their marital life a love drama, by the frequent enactment of the love episode as described in these pages and their outlook upon life will be buoyant and positive.