§ 82
The rationalistic thought may occur to some men that a woman’s all can be taken at one love episode. It may come from her uttering words to the effect that she is all his. If his means with his destructive mark on it she is utterly his, to be sure, if he has ruined her. But by a perfect love episode one can ruin only the egoistic-social value of this woman for some other man. For any other man her sexual value would be only increased by the proper kind of love episode.
But her erotic value is something that can exist only for the man whom she loves and who loves her. The first properly erotic love episode can never destroy or ruin but only create, or begin the creation, of a woman out of a gynecoid female. A true woman according to the use of the term in this book is a female who has become fused with a male. Then she becomes a woman and he a man. The nature of this fusion has been discussed elsewhere.