It is only by annual house cleanings and account clearings that you can tell about how you stand.
LET YOUR WIFE KNOW
It is usually wise for a woman, married or single, to keep her real estate and her money, if she have any, in her own name. So also with property bought with her money.
In these cases the woman should deal with her husband, or the members of her family, the same as she would with strangers with whom she is transacting business.
Some may say that this suggests a want of confidence and a lack of that affection that should exist between husband and wife or near kinsfolk. Such an objection is sheer sentimentality. Be as open handed and generous as you will with your loved ones, but when it comes to business, let the work be done in a strictly business way or not at all.
Many a good business has gone to ruin after the death of the owner and manager because he had kept his wife in blank ignorance of his affairs and the way in which he conducted them.
Many a business, that just dragged along till the death of the manager, has sprung into new life when the widow took charge. This must in part be credited to natural ability and inborn pluck and energy, but even these gifts could not have availed if the woman had been left in ignorance of business methods.
Women, like men, are awkward in new positions, not so much from a want of ability as a lack of experience.
Put the average man suddenly in charge of a house, and he will soon demonstrate his helplessness. The woman's deftness comes from her experience.
As far as it is possible, every husband should post his wife as to his methods of doing business.