LXXVI.
If when paying an evening visit you should find a party assembled, enter as you would otherwise have done, but remain only a few minutes, and escape in as quiet a way as possible. Let it be known shortly after, in such a way that it will reach the family, that you were unaware of company being assembled.
LXXVII.
In calling upon a person staying at a hotel, if she is not at home add your address to your name, else your visit may be fruitless.
LXXVIII.
When about to be absent a long time, make your farewell visit short, announcing the fact; if necessary to leave your card, mark on it T. T. L. or P. P. C. When you return, those upon whom you have called will pay you the first visit; those whom you have neglected, will properly conclude the acquaintance is discontinued. If you are married while abroad, this is especially the case.
LXXIX.
Visits after a party or dinner should be paid within the week.
LXXX.
Upon the death of any member of a family with which you have associated, visits of condolence should not be personally made until after a week or two has elapsed.