Do not mistake affectation for refinement: it would be no less an error than confounding vice with virtue.
CVIII.
Do not make a public room the arena for torturing any simple swain who perchance may admire you a little more than you deserve. Recollect that while you are wounding another’s heart you may be trifling with your own peace.
CIX.
When you leave a party before the others, do so quietly and as little seen as possible; first making your parting curtsy to the ladies of the house, if convenient. During the week, make them a visit of thanks, at which you may converse of the pleasure of the ball, and the good selection of the company.
CX.
If you are engaged to a gentleman, do not let your attention be paid exclusively to him—the object of your love should alone perceive it.
CXI.
If you have accepted an invitation, do not fail to keep it unless for the most unavoidable reasons.