Who gets along easily with others,

Who is coöperative in group projects and likes to help people,

Who is cool and free from emotionality,

Who is concerned about what other people think of him,

Who was reared in a happy home,

Who is free of cares and has broad interests,

Who is fairly well contented with his lot in life,

Who can be influenced by others when their reasoning is sound.

The big question is how you can know if you and any prospective mate have qualities that make you good marriage risks. You will find in the next chapter ten tests that should provide the answer. They will record your rating on the nine traits we have just discussed, plus a rating on your family background.