If we observe the manners and customs of others in society to which we have not been accustomed, we shall be often saved from blunders. If those in company with us make mistakes, we should be governed by the same rule as in case of accidents,—not take notice unless we can undo or cover the mistake. An incident is related of a certain king which illustrates this true politeness.
At the royal table on one occasion were two ladies from an obscure provincial town who were unused to the customs of city and court. When tea was brought in they poured some from the cup into the saucer to cool it. The king saw a smile go around the table at their expense, and, with politeness worthy of a king, he hastened to pour his own tea into the saucer, upon which every person at the table felt obliged to follow the royal example, and the two strangers were spared the mortification of discovering that they had done anything unusual.
Lesson VII.
OUTLINE FOR BLACKBOARD.
MANNERS IN SOCIETY.
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| Entering and taking leave. Removal of hat and care of wrappings. Various courtesies. Staring at or speaking of defects and infirmities. Treatment of accidents and mistakes. Whispering, laughing, and private conversation. Attention to one's dress or matters of toilet. Sitting still gracefully. Inattention to the company we are in. Introductions. Giving proper titles. Attention in conversation,—illustration. Attention to reading or music. Looking over another's shoulder. Reading letters. Interest in what is shown us. Asking questions of strangers. Contradicting statements. Doing our part. |