chemin faisant, on the way.
Ne parlons pas de cela. This is as far as she can becomingly go; and yet so far she must go. We should be disappointed if de Grignon's devotion were left without hope of reward, and yet the wound must be healed before the new love can declare itself.
les as et les rois, the leading honors at cards. There is a double play on these words in what follows. First, the countess gently reproaches Henri for failing in the traditional loyalty of his family to the restored royal family; then, secondly, she alludes to the rivalry of herself and Léonie as a strife of queens (bataille de dames), to whom Henri is the roi who can make a "marriage" (technical term at cards) with either he will.