(There is a difference somehow in the quality of their suffering.)
ROSALIND: Can’t you see—
AMORY: I’m afraid I can’t if you love me. You’re afraid of taking two years’ knocks with me.
ROSALIND: I wouldn’t be the Rosalind you love.
AMORY: (A little hysterically) I can’t give you up! I can’t, that’s all! I’ve got to have you!
ROSALIND: (A hard note in her voice) You’re being a baby now.
AMORY: (Wildly) I don’t care! You’re spoiling our lives!
ROSALIND: I’m doing the wise thing, the only thing.
AMORY: Are you going to marry Dawson Ryder?
ROSALIND: Oh, don’t ask me. You know I’m old in some ways—in others—well, I’m just a little girl. I like sunshine and pretty things and cheerfulness—and I dread responsibility. I don’t want to think about pots and kitchens and brooms. I want to worry whether my legs will get slick and brown when I swim in the summer.