New York

Or a blank may be left and the name of the person invited be written in. If there are cards of admission to the church, they may read:

Please present this card

at the Church of the Disciples

Amsterdam Avenue and Eightieth Street

on Thursday, the fourth of November

If many guests are expected, a plan should be made of the church, showing how the numbers of the pews run. Relatives and friends are assigned to these in the order of their relationship or intimacy with the family, those nearest and dearest coming next to the altar. The number of the pew is written on the card of admission to the church. The ushers are provided with duplicate plans, giving the names of these special guests and the pews they are to occupy. Another method is to have cards engraved:

Mr. and Mrs. . . .

will please present this card to an usher

The latter can then look up the name on his list and see which pew has been assigned to that guest. The bride’s family and friends sit on the left of the middle aisle, those of the groom on the right.