London, Nov. 10.
Certainly, my dear, friendship is a mighty pretty invention, and, next to love, gives of all things the greatest spirit to society.
And yet the prudery of the age will hardly allow us poor women even this pleasure, innocent as it is.
I remember my aunt Cecily, who died at sixty-six, without ever having felt the least spark of affection for any human being, used to tell me, a prudent modest woman never loved any thing but herself.
For my part, I think all the kind propensities of the heart ought rather to be cherished than checked; that one is allowed to esteem merit even in the naughty creature, man.
I love you very sincerely, Emily: but I like friendships for the men best; and think prudery, by forbidding them, robs us of some of the most lively as well as innocent pleasures of the heart.
That desire of pleasing; which one feels much the most strongly for a male friend, is in itself a very agreable emotion.
You will say, I am a coquet even in friendship; and I am not quite sure you are not in the right.
I am extremely in love with my husband; yet chuse other men should regard me with complacency, am as fond of attracting the attention of the dear creatures as ever, and, though I do justice to your wit, understanding, sentiment, and all that, prefer Rivers’s conversation infinitely to yours.
Women cannot say civil things to each other; and if they could, they would be something insipid; whereas a male friend—