"How can this be?" dost ask: 'tis that such injury ever

Forces the hotter to love, also the less well to will.

Once thou didst profess to know but Catullus, Lesbia, nor wouldst hold Jove before me. I loved thee then, not only as a churl his mistress, but as a father loves his own sons and sons-in-law. Now I do know thee: wherefore if more strongly I burn, thou art nevertheless to me far viler and of lighter thought. How may this be? thou askest. Because such wrongs drive a lover to greater passion, but to less wishes of welfare.

LXXIII.

Desine de quoquam quicquam bene velle mereri

Aut aliquem fieri posse putare pium.

Omnia sunt ingrata, nihil fecisse benigne

Prodest, immo etiam taedet obestque magis

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Vt mihi, quem nemo gravius nec acerbius urget,