Told listening maids he thought them fond and weak;

But should a worthy man his hopes display

In few plain words, and beg a yes or nay,

He would deserve an answer just and plain,

Since adulation only moved disdain -

Sir, if my friends object not, come again.”

Hence, our grave Lover, though he liked the face,

Praised not a feature - dwelt not on a grace;

But in the simplest terms declared his state:

“A widow’d man, who wish’d a virtuous mate;