love for Lafayette, 365;
care for his family, 366;
lasting regard for Fairfaxes, 366, 367;
kindness to Taft family, 367, 368;
destroys correspondence with his wife, 368;
their devoted relationship, 368;
care for his step-children and relatives, 369, 370;
charged with lack of humor, 371;
but never made himself ridiculous, 372;
not joyous in temperament, 372;