"A lady may always judge of the estimation in which she is held by the conversation which is addressed to her."
Some people cannot drive to happiness with four horses, and others can reach the goal on foot.
Thackeray.
"The clown who excites the multitudes to mirth is more a benefactor than the conqueror who drapes a thousand homes in mourning."
"Tact is the art of putting yourself in another's place, and being quick about it."