But the anger or the temper which leads to violence is to be controlled absolutely. Those sudden gusts of passion lead to crime as sure as the sun rises and sets every day. And it is always personal violence, even to the extent of murder that is the result of giving way to such an emotion. No one ever becomes violently angry because he is not a good man.
If a man stands up in his manhood, and despises small things, he will be in a position to control his angry feelings no matter how much he may feel hurt by the acts of another.
If we could get angry with ourselves because we do not improve, that would be an anger worth cultivating. But so far as others are concerned, let your anger be mild and never reach the point of resentment, for that always leads to revenge which is a fatal emotion.
If others are the cause of anger to us, keep away from them, and if we must associate with them, keep cool and bide your opportunity.
PRACTICE LOGIC, COMMON SENSE AND TACT
When a man can give a good reason for what he does he practices logic. Not excuses for doing what he should not do, but REASONS why.
When he gives good reasons, and follows the universal practice of other men under the same circumstances, he practices common sense.
When he does things in a quiet, unobtrusive, and agreeable manner, so that other men are satisfied with his way, he practices tact.
These three qualities are badges of success among every nation and in every occupation, trade, or profession.
The business and professional resourcefulness of every man is not measured upon the quantity of his learning, or his high proficiency, but according to his ability to apply what he knows to the matter in hand.