Because of thee it is, the Libyan tribes,

And Nomad chieftains hate me; my own people

Are turned against me; all because of thee

My woman’s honour has been blotted out,

And former fair good name whereby alone

I held my head aloft. To whom dost thou

Abandon me, a woman marked for death?

My guest, my guest! Since only by that name

I am to know my husband![[34]]

It would seem that her anguish must melt a heart of stone, but Æneas remained apparently immovable. Before him still shone the vision of the god, and in his ears Jove’s message rang insistently. Controlling every tender impulse, he answered in words that were made harsh by restraint. To Dido their coldness was as cruel as death and far more bitter. She did not know the gentle Æneas in the grip of the force that was driving him, transforming him into a monster of ingratitude.