A gentleman, in presenting a letter of introduction to a lady, may, if she should be at home, make his first call when sending in his letter and card, whereon should be designated his hotel or place of residence. If this should not be the case, she will answer by sending her card with her reception day engraved upon it, or, if that be too far distant, a note, stating when he may call, should be sent; it may also be expected that her husband, son or brother will call upon him and offer what civilities are at command. Even should neither card nor note be sent, it is still permitted him to call once more. His responsibility ceases here, and if no attention follows he may conclude his friend has overstepped the limits of a slight acquaintance in giving him the letter of introduction.
A Letter of Recommendation
to some position or appointment is very much the same as one of introduction. Its reception, however, does not necessitate social attentions. The form is very simple:
644 Broadway, New York, November 22, 189-.
Dear Mr. Hill:
Recognizing, as I do, that your position in commercial circles will give your influence great weight, I take it upon myself to introduce to you Mr. Philip Palmer, a graduate of one of the best business colleges in New York City, and a young man of integrity and capacity. Any recommendations which you can grant him will be looked upon as a favor by
Your friend,
Milton Jones.
To William Hill,
Elmira, N.Y.
A general letter of introduction, intended for the perusal of strangers, would read somewhat as follows: