Softly modulated tones should mark the words spoken to a child, and reproof carries an added weight when lowered tones convey the rebuke. Even a baby before it can speak recognizes shades of meaning in the tones the mother utters, and is soothed by the one and startled by the other.
Kindliness, politeness of the parents one towards another, are the first steps toward training children in the acquirement of good manners. Gentleness and sweetness of manner can be taught at the cradle far more surely than from the schoolroom desk, and when baby has learned to preface its little wants with “please,” and Master Four Years-old to run and open the door for mamma, or mamma’s visitors, or to give up the easiest chair without being asked, the firm foundation has been laid for courteous behavior in after life.
And so on, all through the school years, boys and girls may be so taught to respect one another’s possessions, letters, feelings, and to discriminate closely between meum and tuum after such wise that they will be made better husbands, better wives, better citizens, for all their days.
Slang and Exaggerations.
By our own speech it is that we are sure to be judged, for,—
“’Tis only man can words create,
And cut the air to sounds articulate
By nature’s special charter. Nay, speech can
Make a shrewd discrepance ’twixt man and man.
It doth the gentleman from the clown discover;