Green corn, in ear, is a stumbling-block, and perhaps one’s best plan would be to conform to the custom of the table where you may be. In eating it directly from the ear hold it in one hand only. Some hostesses provide small doilies with which to hold the ear.
If a guest is pleased with any particular dish on the table, a delicate compliment upon its unusual excellence is always pleasing to the hostess.
[Evening Parties, Receptions and Suppers.]
The evening party may be as elaborate or as simple an affair as the hostess may desire. In its elaborate form it only differs from the ball in the one respect that dancing may, or may not, be introduced as a feature of the entertainment, while a ball is given for the express purpose of dancing, and is always so understood.
Invitations.
Invitations for an elaborate evening party are sent out ten days or two weeks in advance and are issued in the name of the hostess alone. Husband and wife may be invited together, addressing the envelope to “Mr. and Mrs. John Doe;” and daughters, if there are several, may be included in one invitation as “The Misses Doe.” Sons, if there be more than one, receive separate invitations, though they can be included in one as “Messrs. Doe.” But friends, even though sheltered by the same rooftree, must receive separate invitations. To invite “The Misses Doe and Roe,” or “Messrs. Brown and Green,” or even “Mrs. Doe and Family,” would be in bad form. To invite the husband to any entertainment where there are ladies without including the wife would be a direct insult. Invitations may be sent by post or carried by messengers. (For forms see Department of “Invitations, Formal and Informal.”)