"That's a bad habit. Drop it. Get things done for you for nothing."
"Why?"
"Because I want you to be a business man when you grow up, and not merely a spender of money."
"What does a business man mean exactly?"
"A ruler of men."
The boy looked troubled again. His confusion of thoughts sorted themselves into his declaration: "I don't want to be a ruler of men; I want people to like me."
"Why?"
"Mostly anyone wants that. It's a sign of weakness. Drop it."
"What ought I to want?"