, showing a man's heart to be as a nest of vipers; and every time he swears, one of them starts out from his head. It is
contemptible
, forfeiting the respect of all the wise and good. It is
wicked
, violating the Divine law, and provoking the displeasure of Him who will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.
1996. Be a Gentleman
Moderation, decorum, and neatness distinguish the gentleman; he is at all times affable, diffident, and studious to please. Intelligent and polite, his behaviour is pleasant and graceful. When he enters the dwelling of an inferior, he endeavours to hide, if possible, the difference between their ranks of life; ever willing to assist those around him, he is neither unkind, haughty, nor over-bearing. In the mansions of the rich, the correctness of his mind induces him to bend to etiquette, but not to stoop to adulation; correct principle cautions him to avoid the gaming-table, inebriety, or any other foible that could occasion him self-reproach. Gratified with the pleasures of reflection, he rejoices to see the gaieties of society, and is fastidious upon no point of little import. Appear only to be a gentleman, and its shadow will bring upon you contempt; be a gentleman, and its honours will remain even after you are dead.
1997. The Happy Man, or True Gentleman