“132: Regarding your question about children fighting: the statement of the...”
Regarding your question about children fighting: the statement of the Master, not to strike back, should not be taken so extremely literally that Bahá’í children must accept to be bullied and thrashed. If they can manage to show a better way of settling disputes than by active self-defence, they should naturally do so.
(From a letter dated 11 May 1945 written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi to an individual believer) [132]
“133: You ask him about the fear of God: perhaps the friends do not realize...”
You ask him about the fear of God: perhaps the friends do not realize that the majority of human beings need the element of fear in order to discipline their conduct? Only a relatively very highly evolved soul would always be disciplined by love alone. Fear of punishment, fear of the anger of God if we do evil, are needed to keep people’s feet on the right path. Of course we should love God—but we must fear Him in the sense of a child fearing the righteous anger and chastisement of a parent; not cringe before Him as before a tyrant, but know His mercy exceeds His justice!
(From a letter dated 26 July 1946 written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi to an individual believer) [133]