Richard Porson’s Charades

My first is expressive of no disrespect,

Yet I never shall call you it while you are by;

If my second you still are resolved to reject,

As dead as my third I shall speedily lie.

If nature and fortune had placed me with you

On my first, we my second might hope to obtain;

I might marry you, were I my third, it is true,

But the marriage would only embitter my pain.

My first is the lot that is destined by fate