Do not form friendships hastily, but once formed hold fast to them. It is equally discreditable to have no friends, and to be always changing one’s acquaintances.

It takes a lifetime of close intimacies to convince each of us, of our absolute, essential loneliness; to make us feel that speech is only clamour, that intercourse only means points of contact, that solitude is often our only substitute for peace.

—Esler.

Only a shelter for my head I sought,

One stormy winter night;

To me the blessing of my life was brought,

Making the whole world bright.