The one most active and having the best
business ability should take the lead.
Lists should be compared, in order to avoid
duplicate invitations.
The tickets should be divided among the
patronesses, who, in turn, distribute them
among their friends.
The patronesses should be at the ball-room in ample time before the arrival of the guests, to see that all is in readiness.
They should stand together beside the entrance to welcome the guests. They should see, as far as possible, that the proper introductions are made, and that every one is enjoying the evening, their own pleasure coming last.
If time permits, a hasty introduction to the patroness beside her may be made by a patroness, but it should not be done if there is the slightest possibility of blocking up the entrance.
A nod of recognition here and there, or a shake of the hands with some particular friend, is all that is necessary. Prolonged conversation should be avoided.
A patroness should not worry over the affair, or leave anything to be done at the last minute. If she has to worry, she should not show it, lest she interfere with the pleasure of others.
They should be the last to leave as well as the first to arrive, to see that the affair closes brilliantly.
SUPPER. The senior patroness leads the way to supper, escorted by the man honored for the occasion.