A Plea for Monogamy - Wilfrid Lay

INDEX

Acme, [§ 26, p. 44]; [§ 28, p. 48]; [§ 68, p. 103]; [§ 75, p. 110]; [§ 76, p. 111]; [§ 81, p. 121]; [§ 89, p. 128]; [§ 96, p. 136]; [§ 97, p. 137]; [§ 101, p. 141]; [§ 110, p. 151]; [§ 111, p. 153]; [§ 121, p. 165]; [§ 139, p. 193]; [§ 144, p. 197]; [§ 146, p. 202]; [§ 157, p. 221]; [§ 199, p. 277]
Adult, [§ 48, p. 77]
Affection, [§ 182, p. 259]; [§ 188, p. 260]
All, a woman’s, [§§ 82-85, pp. 123-125]; [§ 89, p. 128]
Analogy, [§ 57, p. 91]
Anesthesia, [§ 8, p. 12]; [§ 20, p. 31]; [§ 73, p. 108]; [§ 136, p. 187]; [§ 140, p. 193]; [§ 141, p. 195]; [§ 149, p. 206]; [§ 163, p. 228]; [§ 181, p. 248]; [§ 199, p. 276]
Annihilation, [§ 132, p. 182]
Apperception, [§ 195, p. 271]
Art of Love, [§ 74, p. 109]
Asceticism, [§ 33, p. 56]; [§ 42, p. 66]
Athletic vs. Sedentary, [§ 32, p. 53]
Autoerotism, [§ 20, p. 31]; [§ 21, p. 33]; [§ 23, p. 37]; [§ 27, p. 46]; [§ 28, p. 48]; [§ 48, p. 77]; [§ 112, p. 154]; [§ 115, p. 157]; [§ 116, p. 159]; [§ 133, p. 183]; [§ 145, p. 198]; [§ 153, p. 214]; [§ 155, p. 217]
Autosuggestion, [§ 28, p. 48]; [§ 30, p. 51]; [§ 116, p. 159]
Bennett, Arnold, [§ 18, p. 26]
Berman, [§ 10, p. 13]
Binary, [§ 66, p. 100]; [§ 95, p. 135]; [§ 159, p. 224]
Birth Control, [§ 214, p. 298]
Brill, A. A., [§ 6, p. 7]
Charity, [§ 3, p. 3]
Charm, [§ 17, p. 24]; [§ 18, p. 26]; [§ 73, p. 108]
Cicisbeo, [§ 12, p. 18]
Clandestine relations, [§ 49, p. 78]; [§ 71, p. 105]
Coldness (see [Frigidity].)
Combinations of conscious and unconscious passion, [§ 189, p. 262]
Comparison, [§ 44, p. 68]
Companionship, [§ 46, p. 73]; [§ 158, p. 222]; [§ 159, p. 224]
Compensation, [§ 156, p. 219]
Completeness of Life, [§ 47, p. 75]
Compulsion to repeat, [§ 146, p. 279]
Conflict, [§ 6, p. 7]; [§ 147, p. 203]; [§ 180, p. 247]; [§ 187, p. 259]
Confusion of erotic and egoistic-social, [§ 40, p. 64]; [§ 135, p. 186]; [§ 137, p. 190]
Continence, Male, [§ 100, p. 140]
Control, [§ 5, p. 6]; [§ 23, p. 37]; [§ 26, p. 44]; [§§ 28-30, pp. 48-51]; [§ 32, p. 53]; [§ 67, p. 102]; [§ 68, p. 103]; [§ 100, p. 140]; [§ 114, p. 155]; [§§ 128-169, pp. 175-234]; [§ 174, p. 240]
Control, woman’s, [§ 67, p. 102]; [§ 68, p. 103]; [§ 133, p. 183]
Coué, [§ 116, p. 159]
Creating, [§ 84, p. 124]
Demi-human, [§ 31, p. 52]; [§ 125, p. 169]
Despair, [§ 136, p. 187]
Disagreements, [§ 25, p. 43]
Disappointments, [§ 136, p. 187]; [§ 201, p. 279]
Discontent, [§ 15, p. 22]
Dissembling, [§ 150, p. 209]; [§ 152, p. 212]
Dominating, [§ 5, p. 6]; [§ 107, p. 148]
Double Standard, [§ 44, p. 69]; [§ 199, p. 276]
Drouet, Mlle., [§ 6, p. 7]; [§ 192, p. 268]
Drama, Love, [§ 69, p. 104]; [§ 74, p. 109]; [§ 87, p. 126]
Duty, [§ 50, p. 82]
Education, [§ 152, p. 212]
Egoistic-social, [§ 17, p. 24]; [§ 25, p. 42]; [§§ 43-45, pp. 67-71]; [§ 50, p. 82]; [§ 51, p. 83]; [§ 171, p. 237]; [§ 191, p. 264]; [§ 206, p. 287]
Ellis, [§ 37, p. 60]; [§ 84, p. 125]; [§ 90, p. 130]; [§ 99, p. 139]; [§ 128, p. 175]; [§ 181, p. 248]; [§ 183, p. 250]
Embarrassment, [§ 70, p. 105]; [§ 153, p. 214]
Emotional catharsis, [§ 24, p. 39]. (See [Acme].)
Emotions, [§ 1, p. 1]; [§ 24, p. 39]; [§§ 33-42, pp. 56-65]; [§ 94, p. 133]; [§ 193, p. 268]; [§ 197, p. 273]
Environment, mental, [§ 145, p. 200]
Erotic, [§ 10, p. 13]; [§ 25, p. 42]; [§ 33, p. 56]; [§ 36, p. 59]; [§ 45, p. 71]; [§ 46, p. 73]; [§ 48, p. 77]; [§ 49, p. 78]; [§ 51, p. 83]; [§ 109, p. 151]; [§ 147, p. 203]; [§ 180, p. 247]; [§ 187, p. 259]; [§ 191, p. 264]
Erotic, superiority of, [§ 63, p. 97]
Erotism, [§ 10, p. 14]
Erotologist, [§ 65, p. 99]; [§ 107, p. 148]; [§ 112, p. 154]
Estrus, [§ 98, p. 138]
Evolution, [§ 128, p. 175]; [§ 190, p. 263]
Fakirs, [§ 117, p. 160]
Fate, [§ 15, p. 22]; [§ 154, p. 216]; [§ 208, p. 290]
Father, [§ 204, p. 284]
Fears, [§ 149, p. 206]
Femininity, [§ 16, p. 23]; [§ 27, p. 46]; [§ 66, p. 100]; [§ 72, p. 107]; [§ 107, p. 148]
Fetishism, [§ 119, p. 162]; [§ 120, p. 163]; [§ 126, p. 170]
Fickleness, [§ 41, p. 64]
Freud, [§ 67, p. 102]; [§ 102, p. 142]; [§ 179, p. 246]; [§ 181, p. 248]; [§ 183, p. 250]
Frigidity, [§ 136, p. 187]; [§ 199, p. 276]
Frink, H. W., [§ 33, p. 56]; [§ 52, p. 85]; [§ 147, p. 203]
Fusion, [§ 56, p. 91]; [§ 76, p. 111]; [§ 88, p. 128]; [§ 114, p. 155]
Gallichan, W. M., [§ 111, p. 153]
Giving, [§ 23, p. 37]; [§ 24, p. 39]; [§ 154, p. 216]
Glands, [§ 10, p. 13]; [§ 63, p. 97]; [§ 105, p. 145]
Gonad, [§ 80, p. 120]; [§ 88, p. 128]
Habit, [§ 42, p. 66]
Hallucination, [§ 157, p. 221]; [§ 161, p. 225]
Harrow, B., [§ 105, p. 145]
Haste, [§ 67, p. 102]; [§ 134, p. 184]; [§ 147, p. 203]; [§ 148, p. 205]; [§ 150, p. 209]
Hologamy, [§ 19, p. 29]; [§ 88, p. 128]; [§ 95, p. 135]; [§ 187, p. 259]
Home, [§ 15, p. 22]; [§ 202, p. 280]
Homosexuality, [§ 184, p. 251]
Honeymoon, [§ 22, p. 35]; [§ 23, p. 37]; [§ 112, p. 154]; [§ 136, p. 187]
Hutchinson, [§ 15, p. 22]
Hypersomatic, [§ 29, p. 49]; [§ 32, p. 53]; [§ 145, p. 198]; [§ 166, p. 231]; [§ 190, p. 263]
Hyposomatic, [§ 29, p. 49]; [§ 32, p. 53]
Identification, [§ 80, p. 118]; [§ 171, p. 237]
Ignorance, [§ 80, p. 118]; [§ 98, p. 138]
Imagination, [§ 116, p. 159]; [§ 164, p. 229]; [§ 165, p. 231]; [§ 166, p. 231]; [§ 167, p. 232]
Individuality, [§ 128, p. 175]
Infantility, [§ 27, p. 46]; [§ 60, p. 94]; [§ 155, p. 217]
Infidelity, [§ 160, p. 224]
Insight, erotic, [§ 199, p. 276]; [§ 200, p. 277]
Instinct, [§§ 42-63, pp. 66-97]; [§ 103, p. 144]; [§ 120, p. 163]; [§ 199, p. 276]
Islet, [§ 79, p. 113]; [§ 80, p. 118]
James, W., [§ 33, p. 56]
Jealousy, [§ 179, p. 246]; [§ 183, p. 250]; [§ 185, p. 253]; [§ 186, p. 255]
Juan, Don, [§ 85, p. 125]
Jus primæ noctis, [§ 85, p. 125]
Karezza, [§§ 100-106, pp. 140-146]; [§ 116, p. 159]
Krafft-Ebing, [§ 177, p. 243]
Law of Reversed Effort, [§ 116, p. 159]
Lombroso, [§ 150, p. 209]
Loneliness, [§ 156, p. 219]
Love, [§ 33, p. 56]; [§ 46, p. 73]; [§ 64, p. 98]; [§ 75, p. 110]; [§ 94, p. 133]; [§ 128, p. 175]
Love at first sight, [§ 19, p. 29]; [§ 47, p. 75]
Love Drama, [§ 69, p. 104]; [§ 74, p. 109]; [§ 87, p. 126]
Love Episode, [§ 10, p. 13]; [§ 26, p. 44]; [§ 74, p. 109]; [§ 75, p. 110]; [§ 84, p. 124]; [§ 97, p. 137]; [§ 146, p. 201]; [§ 212, p. 294]
Love Impulse, [§ 5, p. 6]; [§ 132, p. 182]
Love Pattern, [§ 30, p. 51]; [§ 53, p. 87]
Man’s vs. Woman’s egoistic-social and erotic urge, [§ 35, p. 59]
Marriage a lottery, [§ 66, p. 100]; [§ 128, p. 175]; [§ 184, p. 257]
Marriage not to be postponed, [§ 173, p. 240]
Marriage, run down, [§ 19, p. 29]; [§ 174, p. 241]
Marriage, Happy, [§ 115, p. 157]
Masculinity, [§ 16, p. 23]; [§ 27, p. 46]; [§ 60, p. 94]; [§ 66, p. 100]
Masochism, [§ 108, p. 149]; [§ 177, p. 243]; [§ 180, p. 247]
Mastery, [§ 200, p. 277]
Meisel-Hess, G., [§ 4, p. 4]; [§ 6, p. 7]; [§ 14, p. 21]
Mental vs. physical, [§ 29, p. 49]
Metonymy, [§ 161, p. 225]
Monogamy, [§ 213, p. 297]
Mother imago, [§ 27, p. 46]; [§ 64, p. 98]; [§ 110, p. 151]; [§ 114, p. 155]; [§ 134, p. 184]; [§ 193, p. 268]
Mountain-climbing allegory, [§§ 122-127, pp. 165-171]
Mutuality, [§§ 21-25, pp. 33-42]
Mystery, [§ 31, p. 33]; [§ 121, p. 165]; [§ 154, p. 216]
Negativism, [§ 23, p. 37]; [§ 59, p. 93]; [§ 60, p. 94]; [§ 151, p. 211]
Next best thing, [§ 130, p. 179]
Observation, [§ 28, p. 48]; [§ 97, p. 137]
Ocean shore, [§ 81, p. 121]
O’Higgins, H., [§ 119, p. 162]
Oneida Community, [§ 100, p. 140]; [§ 114, p. 155]
Over-sexed woman, [§ 149, p. 206]; [§ 186, p. 258]
Parents, [§ 52, p. 85]; [§ 53, p. 87]; [§ 54, p. 89]
Passion, [§ 33, p. 56]; [§ 49, p. 78]; [§ 196, p. 272]; [§ 203, p. 283]; [§ 207, p. 289]
Passive, [§ 27, p. 46]; [§ 33, p. 56]
Patterns, [§ 11, p. 16]; [§§ 31-32, pp. 52-55]; [§ 53, p. 87]; [§ 117, p. 160]; [§ 118, p. 161]; [§ 168, p. 233]; [§ 170, p. 236]; [§ 199, p. 276]
Pepys, [§ 182, p. 249]
Perverse, [§ 7, p. 11]
Phantasy, [§ 86, p. 126]; [§ 139, p. 193]; [§ 146, p. 201]; [§ 153, p. 214]; [§ 157, p. 221]; [§ 162, p. 226]
Phobia, [§ 38, p. 61]
Physical vs. mental, [§ 29, p. 49]; [§ 170, p. 236]
Plato, [§ 46, p. 73]
Playmate, [§ 12, p. 18]; [§ 27, p. 46]
Plurality of women, [§ 191, p. 264]
Polyandry, unconscious, [§ 176, p. 242]
Polygamy, [§ 20, p. 31]
Polymorphous-perverse, [§ 7, p. 11]
Preparation of wife, [§§ 97-99, pp. 137-139]
Problems, sex, [§ 11, p. 16]
Prodigality of Nature, [§ 206, p. 287]
Prohibition, [§ 197, p. 273]
Prostitute, [§ 4, p. 4]; [§ 67, p. 102]; [§ 150, p. 209]
Prostitution, [§ 4, p. 4]; [§ 54, p. 89]; [§§ 197-198, pp. 273-274]
Psychic erotism, [§ 109, p. 151]
Psychoanalysis, [§ 6, p. 7]; [§ 31, p. 52]; [§ 52, p. 85]; [§ 184, p. 251]
Rapport, [§ 99, p. 139]; [§ 166, p. 231]; [§ 207, p. 289]
Rationalization, [§ 25, p. 42]; [§ 82, p. 123]
Reassociation, [§ 38, p. 61]; [§ 39, p. 62]; [§ 41, p. 64]
Relaxation, [§ 96, p. 136]; [§ 99, p. 139]; [§ 192, p. 267]
Repression, [§ 6, p. 7]; [§ 35, p. 59]; [§ 37, p. 60]; [§ 128, p. 175]; [§ 144, p. 197]; [§ 162, p. 226]; [§ 197, p. 273]
Resentment, [§ 136, p. 187]
Resistance, [§ 157, p. 221]; [§ 159, p. 222]
Responsibility, [§ 45, p. 71]; [§ 194, p. 269]
Restlessness, [§ 13, p. 19]
Right of woman, [§ 89, p. 128]; [§ 90, p. 130]; [§ 92, p. 132]; [§ 93, p. 133]
Robie, Dr. W. F., [§ 65, p. 100]
Robinson, J. H., [§ 1, p. 2]
Romantic, [§ 14, p. 21]; [§ 15, p. 22]
Sacrifice, [§ 177, p. 243]; [§ 180, p. 247]
Satisfaction, [§ 2, p. 2]; [§ 16, p. 23]; [§ 26, p. 44]; [§ 27, p. 46]; [§ 72, p. 107]
Science, [§ 110, p. 151]
Sea and rocks, [§ 81, p. 121]
“Secret Places of the Heart,” [§ 78, p. 113]
Sex Inhibition, [§ 137, p. 190]; [§ 178, p. 245]
Sex life, normal, [§ 9, p. 12]; [§ 11, p. 16]; [§ 77, p. 112]
Sex talk, [§ 11, p. 16]
Shaw, G. B., [§ 156, p. 219]
Shrew, [§ 20, p. 31]
Simultaneity, [§ 98, p. 138]; [§§ 111-113, pp. 153-155]
Single standard, [§ 199, p. 276]
Solitary vice of husbands, [§ 155, p. 218]
Soma, [§ 29, p. 49]
Splitting of libido, [§ 189, p. 262]
Spouse, [§ 207, p. 289]
Steinach, [§ 105, p. 145]
Stekel, W., [§ 54, p. 89]; [§ 184, p. 251]
Stoics, [§ 33, p. 56]
Strength, [§ 59, p. 93]; [§ 60, p. 94]; [§ 80, p. 118]
Study (see [Observation])
Sublimation, [§ 104, p. 145]
Succession plan, [§ 112, p. 154]; [§ 113, p. 155]; [§ 115, p. 157]; [§ 118, p. 161]
Suggestion, [§ 166, p. 231]
Supremity of male control, [§ 142, p. 195]
Surprise, [§ 33, p. 56]; [§ 121, p. 165]
Surprise of married, [p. 15]
Synthesis, [§ 7, p. 11]; [§ 91, p. 131]
Talion, [§ 152, p. 212]
Taming of the Shrew, [§ 20, p. 31]
Tension, erotic, [§ 91, p. 131]
Testing, [§ 72, p. 107]; [§ 114, p. 155]; [§ 121, p. 165]; [§ 136, p. 187]; [§ 137, p. 190]; [§ 150, p. 209]; [§ 151, p. 211]; [§ 152, p. 212]; [§ 160, p. 224]
Thesis, [§ 144, p. 197]
Trial marriage, [§ 41, p. 64]; [§ 207, p. 289]
Tumescence, [§ 81, p. 121]; [§ 91, p. 131]
Unconscious affection, [§ 187, p. 259]
Unconscious factor, [§ 65, p. 99]; [§ 66, p. 100]; [§ 192, p. 267]
Unconscious love, [§ 193, p. 268]; [§ 206, p. 287]; [§ 207, p. 289]; [§ 208, p. 290]
Unhappy marriage, [§§ 170-186, pp. 236-258]
Unity, [§ 190, p. 263]
Variety, [§ 87, p. 126]; [§ 198, p. 274]
Virginity, [§ 84, p. 124]; [§ 210, p. 292]; [§ 211, p. 293]
Virility, [§ 17, p. 24]; [§ 25, p. 42]; [§ 72, p. 107]; [§ 100, p. 140]; [§ 114, p. 155]; [§ 159, p. 224]; [§ 201, p. 279]
Wells, H. G., [§ 78, p. 113]
Wifan (root WIB), [§ 66, p. 100]; [§ 168, p. 233]
Wife, [§ 170, p. 236]
Wife’s helplessness, [§ 92, p. 132]; [§ 157, p. 221]; [§ 160, p. 224]; [§ 161, p. 225]
Woman’s infinite variety, [§ 87, p. 126]
Woman’s lack of positive control, [§ 133, p. 183]
Work, [§ 50, p. 82]