The relationship of the urlind to the father and of the urning to the mother Hirschfeld summarizes in the following table:
I. Urning boy
Prefers girls’ games, avoids characteristic boys’ games, has many girlish features in his character and behavior, Sometimes also in his appearance. Observers remark: “He is like a girl.”
Urlind girl
Prefers boys’ games, dislikes handwork, confections, is ‘boy-like’ in behavior, in acts and, often, in appearance. Remark: “She is like a boy!”
II. Attitude towards the other sex
Prefers the company of girls.
Emotional fixation on the mother.
Preferably plays rough games with boys.
Attachment greater to father.