How shall men grow?

* * * Let her make herself her own

To give or keep, to live and learn and be

All that not harms distinctive womanhood.

For woman is not undeveloped man

But diverse; could we make her as the man

Sweet love were slain; his dearest bond is this,

Not like to like, but like in difference.

Yet in the long years liker must they grow;

The man be more of woman, she of man;