Staff Writer, The American Magazine

NEW YORK
E. P. DUTTON & COMPANY, INC.
1946

Copyright, 1946, by E. P. Dutton & Co., Inc.

All rights reserved. Printed in the U.S.A.

FIRST EDITION

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To
OUR TWO DAUGHTERS
and
OUR TWO SONS
Who Have Yet to Pick Their Mates

Contents

PAGE
List of Tests[9]
Foreword[11]
CHAPTER
I.Why Marry, Anyhow?[15]
II.Your Chances of Getting a Mate You’ll Like[23]
III.Are You Ready for Married Love?[38]
IV.Is It Love—or Infatuation?[47]
V.Growing Up Sexually[55]
VI.Sex Adventuring[63]
VII.Do You Frighten Possible Mates Away?[74]
VIII.Attracting the One You Want[83]
IX.Is the One You Want the One You Need?[91]
X.Crucial Traits for a Happy Marriage[98]
XI.Test Your Mate and Yourself[107]
XII.Now, See How You Match as a Couple![124]
XIII.Beware of Mixed Marriages[139]
XIV.Nine Dangerous Characters[146]
XV.People Who Should Not Marry at All[156]
XVI.Will a Job Undermine Your Marriage?[165]
XVII.The Veteran as a Mate[174]
XVIII.So You Agree to Marry: What Next?[183]
XIX.Getting Ready for Married Intimacy[189]
XX.Getting Off to a Good Start[195]
After Thoughts[204]
Appendix A: Selected Bibliography[206]
Appendix B: Marriage Counseling Agencies[211]
Index[213]