Never make a noise in eating. To munch or smack the lips are vulgar faults.
Sit quietly at table, avoid stiffness, but, at the same time, be careful that you do not annoy others by your restlessness.
Do not eat so fast as to be done long before others, nor so slowly as to keep them waiting.
When the finger-glasses are passed round, dip the ends of your fingers into them, and wipe them upon your napkin; then do not fold your napkin, but place it beside your plate upon the table.
To carry away fruit or bonbons from the table is a sign of low breeding.
Rise with the other ladies when your hostess gives the signal.
After returning to the parlor, remain in the house at least an hour after dinner is over. If you have another engagement in the evening, you may then take your leave, but not before. You will insult your hostess by leaving sooner, as it appears that you came only for the dinner, and that being over, your interest in the house, for the time, has ceased. It is only beggars who "eat and run!"