A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 1 of 3

by George Elliott Howard

"3. Then, after that, let the bridegroom declare what he will grant her, in case she choose his will, and what he will grant her, if she live longer than he.

"4. If it be so agreed, then it is right that she be entitled to half the property, and to all, if they have children in common, except she again choose a husband.[879]

"5. Let him confirm all that which he has promised with a 'wed;' and let his friends guarantee that.

"6. If they then are agreed in everything, then let the kinsmen take it in hand, and betroth their kinswoman to wife, and to a righteous life, to him who desired her, and let him take possession of the 'bohr'[880] who has control of the 'wed.'

"7. But if a man desire to lead her out of the land, into another thane's land, then it will be advisable for her that her friends have an agreement that no wrong shall be done to her; and if she commit a fault, that they may be nearest in the 'bot,' if she have not whereof she can make 'bot.'"[881]

The form of betrothal here described is that of the wed. The foster-laen, or wine-money, a substitute for the arrha, is not paid down, but it is merely promised to the guardian; while the morning-gift—"in case she choose his will"—and the weotuma—"if she live longer than he"—are the important elements, and these belong to the bride.[882]

Such was the form of beweddung generally prevailing among the Germanic nations about the time of the Norman Conquest. It had been reached, as we have seen, only through several successive phases of development, not sharply defined, but overlapping each other. In the first stage, falling mainly or wholly within the prehistoric era, the betrothal is a real contract, according to which there is two-sided fulfilment. The payment of the price and the delivery of the bride go hand in hand.[883] In the second stage, existing at any rate from the time of Tacitus onward, the transaction is still in form a real contract of sale, but there is only one-sided fulfilment. The purchase price is paid to the guardian, but the tradition of the bride is postponed. Next a solemn act through payment of a nominal sum, or arrha, is deemed sufficient, the payment of the actual price, or weotuma, being reserved for the nuptials, when, often, it is paid, not to the guardian, but to the bride, disclosing to us the genesis of the dower. The beweddung is still a real contract, but not a contract of sale. Finally, even one-sided fulfilment is no longer required. Nothing is paid and nothing is transferred at the betrothal, which now consists of promises and sureties, accompanied by a solemn act which engendered the obligation. The real contract of sale has been transformed into a merely formal contract, which provides for future fulfilment on the part of both guardian and bridegroom.

Let us now turn to the second act in marriage, the gifta, or actual "giving" of the bride to the husband. Here there is no lack of ceremony and solemn phrases. Legally the gifta is a distinct transaction subsequent to the betrothal in the order of time.[884] Very generally in German lands late autumn or early winter was the favorite season for the celebration of marriages. So also, during the waxing moon, a Tuesday or a Thursday was preferred for the wedding day.[885] As among the Greeks, Romans, and Hindus,[886] the nuptial ceremony appears to have consisted of three parts: the solemn tradition, the joyous home-bringing of the bride, and the festal initiation into the wedded life in the bridegroom's house.[887] Of these the gifta, or tradition, is most important, and it takes place in the home of the bride.[888] The father or guardian by blood takes the lead in the proceedings, and is thus the prototype of the modern priest or magistrate. The first act is the solemn surrender of the bride together with the symbols of the husband's power and protection: the sword, the hat, and mantle, or other objects of similar significance. Then, on reception of the bride, the bridegroom pays the weotuma, or delivers the charter providing for the morning-gift or other allowance for the widow; and, at the same time, makes symbolical assertion of the power which he thus acquires over the wife: for example, by treading upon her foot—a custom, says Sohm, which at later time finds a more refined expression in the delivery of a shoe or slipper.[889] From this arose the belief, still existing in some parts of Germany, that the bride will rule the family, if before the altar, after the blessing is pronounced by the priest, she places her foot upon that of the bridegroom. "Who carries the slipper rules."[890]

A point which requires special notice is the relative legal importance of the beweddung and the gifta. "Whether the marriage begins with the betrothal, or with the delivery of the bride to the bridegroom, or with their physical union, is one of the many doubtful questions."[891] According to the view of Sohm, which is defended with his usual acuteness, the betrothal of the early laws is not, as commonly held, a pactum de contrahendo, a contract for the future giving in marriage,[892] but the essential part of the marriage itself. It is the only declaration of will, the only ground of legitimate marriage, which is not created, but merely consummated at the gifta.[893] Those who are bound by contract are in respect to third parties practically husband and wife.[894] The ground of the husband's title is the betrothal and not the nuptials. Either party can bring action in the courts for breach of the contract. The bridegroom cannot compel the delivery of the bride, but he may sue for the recovery of the weotuma and an additional fine.[895] On the other hand, a breach of the contract by the bridegroom is punished by forfeiture of the weotuma, and possibly also by a fine.[896] The betrothal created the negative effects of marriage—the obligation of connubial fidelity. The bridegroom could maintain his title as a husband against all third parties. The gifta conveyed the positive rights, such as the power of the husband over the person and property of the wife. It is the completion of that which has gained its legal significance from the betrothal.[897]