Dr. Clarke’s work on Sex and Education made a great sensation because he pointed out that the ill-health of American women is largely due to the brain-work imposed on them at school. Now the superior beauty of American women is admittedly largely due to the intelligent animation of their features, to the early training of their mental faculties. Is this advantage to be sacrificed? Dr. Clarke’s argument does not point to any such conclusion. He simply contended that the methods of female education were injurious. “The law has, or had, a maxim that a man and his wife are one, and that the one is the man. Modern American education has a maxim, that boys’ schools and girls’ schools are one, and that the one is the boys’ school.” Girls need different studies from boys to fit them for their sphere in life; and above all they need careful hygienic supervision and periods of rest.—Dr. Clarke’s book affords many irrefutable arguments in favour of one of the main theses of the present treatise: that the tendency of civilisation is to differentiate the sexes, mentally and physically. It is on this differentiation that the ardour and the cosmetic power of Romantic Love depend. Hence the hopelessness of the Virago Woman’s Rights Cause, especially in America, where the women are more thoroughly feminine than elsewhere. It is said that when the first female presidential candidate announced a lecture in a western town, not a single auditor appeared on the scene. American women, evidently, are in no immediate danger of becoming masculine and ceasing to inspire Love.
Women, however, must be educated and thoroughly, for it has been abundantly shown in the preceding pages that only an educated mind can feel true Romantic Love. But their education should be feminine. They need no algebra, Greek, and chemistry. What they need is first of all a thorough knowledge of Physiology and Hygiene, so that they may be able to take care of the Health and Beauty of their children. Then they should be well versed in literature, so as to be able to shine in conversation. Their artistic eye should be trained, to enable them to teach their children to go through the world with their eyes open. Most of us are half blind; we cannot describe accurately a single person or thing we see. Music should be taught to all women, as an aid in making home pleasant and refined, and as an antidote to care. Natural history is another useful feminine study which enlarges the sympathies by showing, for example, that birds love and marry almost as we do, wherefore it is barbarous to wear their stuffed bodies on one’s hat.
Education, Intermarriage, Hygiene, and Romantic Love will ultimately remove the last traces of the ape and the savage from the human countenance and figure. Climate will perhaps always continue to modify different races sufficiently to afford the advantages of cross-fertilisation or intermarriage. The remarkable fineness of the American complexion, for instance, has been ascribed to climatic influences, and with justice it seems, for, according to Schoolcraft, the skin of the native Indians is not only smoother, but more delicate and regularly furrowed than that of Europeans. The notion, however, that the climate is tending to make the American like the Indian in feature and form is nonsensical. The typical “Yankee” owes his high cheek-bones and lankness to his indigestible food; his thin colourless lips to his Puritan ancestry and lack of æsthetic culture.
Even if climate did possess the power to modify the forms of our features, it would not be allowed to have its own way where these modifications conflicted with the laws of Beauty. Science is daily making us more and more independent of crude and cruel Natural Selection, and of the advantages of physical conformity to our surroundings. Hence Sexual Selection has freer scope to modify the human race into harmony with æsthetic demands. Perhaps the time will come when the average man will have as refined a taste and as deep feelings as a few favoured individuals have at present; that epoch will be known as the age of Romantic Love and Personal Beauty.
INDEX
- About, E.: fashionable disease, [510]
- Absence: effect on Love, [256]
- Addison: familiarity, [184], [258]
- Æsthetic sense: developed from utilitarian associations, [336];
- Æsthetic suicide, [388], [390]
- Affection, impersonal, [11-16];
- for dismal scenery, [13]
- Affections, Personal: love for animals, [16-19];
- Age: which preferred by Cupid, [303];
- Air: fresh, [317];
- Albinos, [468], [501]
- Alcock, Dr.: colour of tropical man, [456]
- Alfieri: first love, [204], [214]
- Alison: on taste, [451]
- Allen, Grant: origin of æsthetic sense, [336]
- Amazons, [191]
- Ambidexterity, [408], [444]
- American beauty, [177], [300];
- American Love: courtship, [118];
- Amicis, E. de: Spanish beauty, [517]
- Amiel, H. F.: on Germans, [523]
- Animals: love for, [16];
- Apes, caressing, [225];
- Apollo, [490]
- Arabian beauty, [516]
- Aryan Love, ancient, [72]
- Asceticism and ugliness, [314]
- Augustine, St.: love and jealousy, [128]
- Austrian beauty, [319], [516]
- Bach, A. B.: chest-exercise, [399]
- Bachelors, [194]
- Bacon: friendship, [25];
- Bain, Prof., [225], [341], [346].
- Baldness, [492]
- Ballet-dancing, [370]
- Ballrooms: unhealthy, [364], [402];
- for birds, [365]
- Balzac: prolonging Love, [218];
- “Bangs,” [388], [495]
- Banting, [384]
- Bathing, [461], [518], [524], [534]
- Beard, G. M.: diet, [384];
- Beard, the, [489]
- Beauty, in flowers, origin of, [8];
- dependent on Health and Cross-fertilisation, [10]
- Beauty, Personal: the æsthetic overtone of Love, [32];
- admiration of, by animals, [43];
- by savages, [59];
- among Hebrews, [72];
- Hindoos, [74];
- Greeks, [83];
- Romans, [88];
- mediæval, [108];
- feminine versus masculine strength, [115];
- arouses jealousy, [133];
- when only skin-deep, [155];
- and intellect, [155];
- refines Love, [177-180];
- feminine, in masculine eyes, [177];
- masculine, in feminine eyes, [178];
- neglected after marriage, [185];
- lost prematurely, [186];
- “skin-deep,” [190];
- elimination of ugly and masculine women, [190];
- fatal to bachelors, [194];
- physical, a source of Love, [303];
- facial, [304];
- dependent on Health, [310];
- independent of utility, [311];
- Greek, [313];
- increased through Hygiene, [316], [335];
- effect of crossing on, [318];
- Jews, [320];
- quadroons, [321];
- increased through Love, [322], [323];
- as a fine art, [329], [417];
- tests of, negative, [331];
- positive, [338];
- human less frequent than animal, [391];
- lost in degradation, [333];
- and age, [334];
- expression versus form, [349];
- proportion, [354];
- feet, [355], [361];
- value of exercise, [362], [403];
- lower limbs, [371];
- Hygiene and civilisation, [372], [394];
- lacing fatal to, [381], [382];
- corpulence, [383];
- rare, [387];
- chest, [394], [396];
- increased by deep-breathing, [399];
- neglect of, a sin, [400];
- neck and shoulder, [400];
- finger-nails, [406];
- jaw, [408];
- characteristic, [411];
- dimples, [412];
- lips, [413];
- cheeks, [423];
- colour and blushes, [425];
- ears, [429];
- noses, [440];
- Greek, [440];
- arm and hand, [405], [408];
- cosmetic value of gastronomy, [446];
- of fragrant air, [447];
- of sunlight, [460], [462];
- skin, [453], [458], [488];
- eyes, [464] et seq., [516];
- beards and moustaches, [489];
- sexual selection preserves hair, [492];
- sensuous, of eyes, [480];
- of hair, [492], [493];
- versus Fashion, [387], [496];
- Brunette versus Blonde, [496];
- national traits, [505];
- race-mixture and Love, [508];
- and mental culture, [324], [520];
- stature, [520];
- beautiful and pretty, [521]
- Beauty-sleep, [317]
- Beauty-spots, [452]
- Beddoe, Dr.: brunettes and blondes, [499];
- races of Britain, [529]
- Beer, [525], [526]
- Beethoven: Love-affairs, [210], [212], [217]
- Bell, Sir Charles: the lips, [227];
- Bella donna, [504]
- Berlioz: love-affairs, [199], [206]
- Birds: affections of, [35];
- intermarriages, nuptial mass meetings, [37];
- courtship, [38];
- love-dances, [39], [52];
- jealousy, [39];
- coyness, [40];
- choice of a mate, [42];
- source of colours, [44];
- love-calls, [51];
- female seeks male, [51];
- display of ornaments, motives of, [52];
- æsthetic taste of, [53];
- murdered for vulgar women, [150];
- billing, [230]
- Blackie, Prof.: Goethe’s love-affairs, [212]
- Blaikie, W.: American physique, [540]
- Blind, why love is, [164], [202]
- Blonde versus Brunette, [496], [529]
- Blushes, [425];
- eyes of Albinos, [468]
- Bodenstedt: Oriental women, [185];
- Georgian women, [325]
- Bones, [410]
- Bothmer, Countess von: French Love, [269], [270];
- Brain, the, [449], [522]
- Brandes, Georg: feminine Love at thirty, [193], [197]
- Breath, offensive, [423]
- Breathing, healthy, [380];
- Brinton and Napheys, [379], [421], [432], [444], [484]
- Brotherly and sisterly love, [23]
- Browne, Lennox: corset ruins grace, [382];
- consumption, [399]
- Brunette versus Blonde, [305], [496], [513], [520], [526], [529]
- Bryant, [254]
- Büchner, L., [534]
- Bulkley, Dr.: care of skin, [460];
- removing hairs, [493]
- Bunyan: kissing, [284]
- Burke: delicacy, [343];
- Burns: Love and cosmic attraction, [6];
- Burton, [4], [259]
- Bustle, the, [375], [494]
- Buxton, [259]
- Byron, Lord: affection for mountains, [13];
- epitaph on dog, [17];
- woman’s Love, [121];
- waltzing, [129];
- the coquette, [142];
- Romantic Love, [163];
- love-affairs, [202];
- first love, [204];
- a poet’s love, [210];
- Swift, [210];
- kissing, [236];
- refusals, [241];
- how to win love, [243], [252];
- sarcasm on marriage, [259];
- money and “love,” [263];
- Italian Love, [274];
- Love inspired by inferior beauty, [305];
- black eyes, [498];
- Italian beauty, [512]
- Calderwood: on affection, [11]
- Calisthenics, [397]
- Campbell, Sir G.: Aryan cheekbones, [424]
- Camper’s angle, [449]
- Canada: Love-matches and Beauty, [178], [373], [510]
- Capture of women, [56]
- Caresses, [225]
- Carew, [256]
- Celibacy: mediæval notions of, [92];
- Cervantes, [202], [280]
- Chamfort, [224]
- Chaperonage: in Greece, [77];
- Characteristic, the, [410]
- Cheeks, [423];
- colour and blushes, [425]
- Chemical affinities, [3-6]
- Chest, the, [304], [394], [397]
- Chesterfield: birth of “flirtation,” [124];
- flattery, [245]
- Children: head, [449];
- eyes, [480]
- Childs, Mrs,: Love and marriage, [122]
- Chin, [412]
- China: Love in, [118];
- Chiromancy, [406]
- Chivalry: militant and comic, [98];
- poetic, [101]
- Choice, sexual. See [Individual Preference]
- Chopin: musician for lovers, [170]
- Christianity and Love, [97];
- Circassian women, [320], [427]
- City air, [447];
- city life, injurious to health, [372]
- Civilisation: and Beauty, [424];
- and noise, [434]
- Clarke, E. H.: American Health and Beauty, [539];
- sex and education, [541]
- Clavel, Dr.: English Beauty, [532]
- Cleanliness, [96], [364], [533]
- Climate, [542]
- Clough, [227]
- “Colds,” [540]
- Coleridge: fruitless Love, [121];
- Collier, Miss M.; Italian Love and Hygiene, [512]
- Collier, R. L.: English and American courtship, [292]
- Colour: a normal product, proportionate to vitality, [44];
- Complementary qualities: colours, [172];
- Complexion: white versus black, [453];
- Compliments, [244]
- Confidence, value of, to lovers, [239], [242]
- Conjugal love: among animals, [34];
- Constable, [167]
- Consumption, nurseries of, [399]
- Coquetry: in birds, [40];
- Corpulence, [304], [382];
- Corset: fatal to Beauty, [379] et seq.;
- Cosmetic hints (see also [Hygiene] and [Exercise]): how to refine the lips, [421];
- Cosmic attraction, [3-6]
- Costume, study of, [495]
- Court-plaster, [452]
- Courts of Love, [103]
- Courtship: among animals, [37];
- facilitated by love-calls, [50];
- display of ornaments, [53];
- among savages, [56];
- Hebrews, [70];
- Greeks, [77];
- Plato on, [78];
- advice to mediæval girls, [106];
- definition and value of, [118];
- playing at, [122];
- modern, [125], [126], [173];
- mediæval, [239];
- French, [268];
- Italian, [275];
- Spanish, [278];
- German, [282];
- American and English, [288], [292], [294], [299];
- the object of dancing, [364];
- needed in France, [509];
- Germany, [527]
- Cousins: Love and kissing, [235];
- as chaperons, [297]
- Coyness: an overtone of Love, [30];
- among animals, [40];
- among primitive maidens, [64];
- Hindoos, [74];
- Greeks, [77];
- mediæval, [100];
- modern, [114]; et seq.;
- a feminine weapon, [115];
- disadvantages of, [118];
- lessens woman’s Love, [119];
- displaced by flirtation, [122];
- of fate, [170];
- after marriage, [185];
- varies, [253];
- how to overcome, [254];
- needed in Germany, [285]
- Crimes, against Health and Beauty, [400], [419]
- Criminal types, [324]
- Crinoline craze, the, [376]
- Cross-fertilisation: advantages to Health and Beauty, [8], [318]
- Crossing, [306];
- a source of Beauty, [318]
- Crowe and Cavalcaselle, [274]
- “Cunning to be strange,” [115]
- Cupid’s arrows, [84]
- Curing Love, art of: 154, [196], [255];
- Curvature, [341], [355], [371], [379], [381], [393], [396], [400], [413], [473], [474]
- Dancing: love-dances of birds, [39], [52];
- Dante, [2], [109], [168], [198], [201], [215], [420]
- Darwin: on flowers and insects, [7];
- benefactor of animals, [18];
- birds, [35];
- animal jealousy, [39];
- coyness, [40];
- sexual selection, [43];
- love charms and calls, [50];
- birds displaying their ornaments, [53];
- English Beauty, [145];
- female tenderness, [150];
- masculine females, [190];
- expression of Love, [224];
- amorous desire for contact, [225];
- origin of kissing, [229];
- feminine inferiority, [260];
- taste, [326];
- symmetry in nature, [338];
- bird dances and courtship, [365];
- Hottentot bustle, or steatopyg, [375];
- jaws and hands, [409];
- lip mutilations, [416];
- expression of emotions, [418];
- Siamese notions of Beauty, [423];
- blushing, [427];
- Albinos, [501];
- movements of ears, [430], [433];
- point of, [431];
- mutilations, [432];
- the nose, [436];
- sense of smell, [446];
- Indian heads, [450];
- movements of the scalp, [452];
- complexion, [455];
- eyebrows, [474];
- loss of man’s hair, [486]
- Darwinism, new proof for, [389]
- Decrepitude, [334]
- Deformity: fatal to Love, [304];
- elimination of, [323]
- Degradation: a cause of ugliness, [333]
- Delicacy, [343], [410], [413]
- Depilatories, [492]
- De Quincy: inferiority of feminine imagination, [261]
- Diagnosis of Love, [254]
- Diderot: effects of Love, [242]
- Dimples, [405], [412]
- Disease: kills Love, [304];
- Display of ornaments, by animals, [52]
- Don Juans, among birds, [36]
- Draughts, stupid fear of, [317]
- Drayton, [167]
- Dress, improprieties of, [380];
- Dryden: on Love, [89], [166];
- Love versus Love, [264]
- Dühring, Dr.: German money-marriages, [282]
- Dürer, [481]
- Ears: a useless ornament, [429];
- physiognomic theories, [432]
- Eckstein: antiquity of Love, [1]
- Education of Girls, [156];
- Egypt: Love in, [67]
- Electricity, as a cosmetic, [464], [493], [505]
- Eliot, George: on first Love, [138]
- Elopements, [61], [188]
- Elson, L. C.: Troubadours and Minnesingers, [104]
- Emerson: poetry and science, [9];
- Emotional differentiation, [180]
- Empedokles, [3], [180]
- Engagements, [293];
- broken, [300]
- English Beauty, [145];
- English Love: courtship, [118];
- Epicures: why handsome, [446]
- Erasmus: kissing in England, [233]
- Erotomania, [222]
- Evolution of Love, [111], [173], [180], [181];
- Exaggeration: characteristic of bad taste, [61]
- Exclusiveness: amorous. See [Monopoly]
- Exercise: effects on Beauty, [186], [313], [372];
- Exogamy, [56]
- Expression: improves form of features, [155];
- Eyes, [164], [262];