At first sight, it would seem a very easy thing to invite a friend to come to you at a given day and hour, and to accept or decline said invitation would appear a matter scarcely worth considering. This rash conclusion, however, disappears from view when it is recollected that the proper phrasing, the suitable signature, and the appropriate paper, are all matters of the nicest choice, and indicate with the most unerring accuracy the good or ill breeding of the parties interested.
From two to three persons only are invited from one family to the same entertainment, and, in the event of a small dinner party, two would be the limit. The invitations would be addressed, not to Mr. Coates and family, but one to “Mr. and Mrs. Coates,” another to “The Misses Coates,” or to “Miss Coates.” If there are brothers, and they are to be invited, a separate invitation is required for each one of them; a single one addressed to the “Messrs. Coates” being considered in bad taste. To one son and one daughter a joint invitation may be extended in the name of “Miss Coates and Brother.” On rather informal occasions where the family, and perhaps their guests also, are desired to be present, the invitation may be sent in the name of “Mr. and Mrs. James B. Coates and Party.”
Note Paper for Invitations.
Note paper for invitations should be plain, unruled, heavy in texture, creamy-white in tint, and of a size to fold once to fit the large, square envelope of the same size and tint. Monogram, if used, or crests, if they may be rightfully claimed, should be stamped or embossed in white directly in the center of the upper portion of the sheet and on the upper flap of the inner envelope only. This envelope should bear the name simply of the invited guest, and is to be enclosed in a perfectly plain, somewhat larger envelope, which bears the entire address and protects the enclosure from the soil of frequent handling by postman or messenger.
Invitation Cards.
Invitation cards, if they are used, should be heavy, creamy-white, and of a size to fit the large, square envelope. Such a card is sufficiently large to contain any ordinary invitation, and should be enclosed, as above, in two envelopes.
Writing the invitation should receive the greatest care, especial attention being given to securing each phrase a line to itself. For instance, the names of host and hostess should never be separated, but given an entire line, the same rule applying to the names of the invited guests.
COOLING DRAUGHT AFTER A TEN MILE RUN
